I never expected a voice conversation with ChatGPT to become my morning’s most consistent, helpful part. But it did—and it stuck—because it finally gave me a routine that works with how my brain functions.
Not long ago, I was like a lot of people trying to “optimize” my mornings. I watched the videos. I listened to the podcasts. Wake up early. Meditate. Go for a run. Journal in silence. Reflect with gratitude. And while I admired the people who could do that, none of it clicked for me.
The second I wake up, my brain is already moving—fast. I’m mentally sorting through tasks, thinking through conversations, jumping between home and work priorities before I even have coffee. Sitting still only made it worse. Every attempt at a calm, still, reflective morning left me more anxious than before.
Then voice mode launched in ChatGPT. One morning, driving to work, I opened the app, hit the little headphone icon, and said, “Can you help me focus this morning?” That was the moment everything changed.
ChatGPT responded with a simple, direct question: “What’s the most important thing you need to get done today?”
And just like that, I started talking. I answered out loud. It followed up. It asked another question, and another. By the time I got to the office, I had more clarity than I’d had in weeks. Not because I sat in silence—but because I had a structured conversation with a tool that helped me think.
Why I Needed Something Different
I don’t need stillness to feel focused. I need motion. I need dialogue. I need to think out loud, talk through my priorities, hear my own thoughts, and respond to smart prompts.
Every book you read talks about the importance of focus. Then the next chapter is about leading your team. Then another one tells you to develop self-awareness and stay present. And they’re all right. But what I needed was something that could remind me of all of that in real time—something that helped me come back, each morning, to what’s actually most important.
That’s the real reason so many traditional morning routines never worked for me. They were designed for people looking to quiet their minds. I needed something that could meet my mind at its natural pace—and guide it.
So instead of trying to force myself into someone else’s system, I built one around the way I think!
I started by identifying the moments where I felt most scattered—right before work, before meetings, or when I sat down at my desk. I wanted a short set of questions that would help me slow down, prioritize, and lead with intention.
At first, I started with just two questions—one work-related and one personal:
What’s the most important thing you need to move forward today?
What’s something you want to do today to feel like yourself?
But after a week or two, I realized I needed more structure. I didn’t just want to manage tasks—I wanted to lead better. So I expanded it into a short, repeatable, five-minute check-in.
✅ Morning Focus Routine (Full Set of Daily Questions)
What’s one thing you want to get done today?
What’s one way you can help motivate your team today?
What’s the management principle or leadership value you want to practice today?
What’s something you’re avoiding that you could make progress on today?
Who on your team needs encouragement or recognition today?
Is there a conversation you’ve been avoiding?
What’s one thing that could throw you off today—and how will you handle it?
Here’s the exact step-by-step of how I built this routine into ChatGPT:
Open the ChatGPT mobile app on your phone.
Tap the headphone icon (bottom right) to enable voice mode.
Say something like: “Can you remember a morning routine for me that includes seven daily questions?”
Dictate the list above, one question at a time.
Once confirmed, say: “From now on, when I say ‘Let’s do my morning focus,’ walk me through each question individually and wait for my response.”
Save a trigger phrase like “Let’s do my morning focus” to kick it off every time.
(Optional) Ask ChatGPT to randomize or rotate the questions if you want variety.
Every time I say that phrase, it walks me through the same routine, one question at a time. No typing. No screens. Just a smart conversation with a clear purpose. (It does take notes if I ask)
Most days, I do it in the car. Sometimes while walking the dog. Occasionally while making breakfast. I open the ChatGPT app, hit voice, and say the phrase. It reads the first question, listens, and moves to the next.
There’s no writing. No journaling. No pressure. I just speak my thoughts out loud and move on.
Some mornings, I give quick answers. Other days, I talk through decisions or reflect on challenges. But no matter what, I leave the conversation more focused than I started.
Because it’s voice-based, I can do it anywhere. It fits my life—not some ideal version of it.
This routine works because it doesn’t try to change how I think. It helps me use how I think.
ChatGPT doesn’t just prompt me—it holds space, listens, and gives structure to what’s already in my head. It doesn’t forget. It doesn’t get tired. And it never needs to be scheduled.
I’ve stuck with it longer than any other routine I’ve tried. Not because I’m more disciplined—but because it finally meets me where I am.
If you’ve tried the “perfect morning” thing and it never stuck, maybe the problem isn’t you. Maybe you just needed a routine designed around how your brain actually works.
Mine happens to be a five-minute voice conversation with ChatGPT. And it’s completely changed how I start my day!!